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Thinking on Your Feet

by Robert Britt

Have you ever been in a situation where you had to blurt out an answer in a hurry and either the wrong thing came out or nothing came out at all? It’s a situation we have all been in at one time or another in our lives.

How do you remedy that situation? Quick Think Training. Learn how to be immediately right and 100% on the money every time!

If I had a course like that, I would be a multi-millionaire. Perhaps I would be in charge of the world at this point. But the truth is, no one has a class like that. The best you can do is spit out the best information you have. Sometimes though, even doing that is a problem.

Now, I am not talking about trying to BS someone and hoping they aren’t going to catch on; I mean really having a possible solution or at least something intelligent to contribute to the conversation. How many times have you been in a purely social situation and had a really witty comment, five minutes too late?

You really do need brain training. We all do. Studies have shown that as people age there is a definite truth to the old adage, use it or lose it. My mom, at age 80, is as sharp as she ever was. She does crosswords, word searches and reads more books in a week than the average American reads in a year. (Four, in case you wondered.)

That sort of thing can keep your mind sharp, but it doesn’t necessarily keep your wit quick. What exercises can you do to make that happen? I recommend taking an improv comedy workshop. In addition to sharpening your witty repertoire, (that’s not a type of sword) it also can be just plain old fun.

Most major cities in the world have improv companies, and many of them offer workshops and full-blown curriculum. Don’t worry if you have never appeared on stage, most people there are in the same boat, and they don’t even have a desire to get on stage. They are, perhaps like you, just looking for an enjoyable time while doing something different (which also happens to enhance their social and business skills).

And don’t rule out the potential of finding a new love. No, I’m not talking about a date, but about performing, or just the art of improv itself.

Anyone, at any age, can do improv. All it takes it a little bit of nerve and the will to do it. Don’t be afraid of failure, that’s half the fun and a big part of this “no judgment” activity.

About the Author: Robert Britt is married and a father of four. He is a published author and has a degree in Psychology from Albright College. Robert is a recognized expert in the field of personal finance, self-esteem and confidence building. Robert spent 13 years in the military and 14 years in manufacturing prior to self-employment. Please contact Rob at rob@robertbritt.com and check out www.robertbritt.com.

Article Source: EzineArticles.com

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  • You’ve made some great points about thinking on your feet. It’s not always easy to do, but the first step is having courage!

  • “Jerk store is the line! Jerk store! Yess!” (I don’t suppose you’re a Seinfeld fan, are you?!)
    This was a fun and timely post. I was just in a situation last night where someone caught me off-guard and my response could have been much better than it was. Eh well… better luck next time! Thanks for your suggestions (who doesn’t love improv?).

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